Of course, there are some people who understand how quickly time passes. That’s why they’re so determined to get what they want before it’s too late.

Why do I hate myself?

Do you catch yourself thinking, "I hate myself"? We hate ourselves for various reasons. Sometimes it is because we say the wrong things at the wrong time. Sometimes we hate ourselves for not living up to our own or another's expectations. The fact is that sooner or later most of us in our lifetime are going to utter the word's "I hate myself." The words "I hate myself" by themselves hold no power over us, but the problem starts when you begin to believe the words. Let's look at some of the reasons why you may come to hate yourself and how to deal with the problems.

I know my strengths and weakness and I am going to make more mistakes, but I can't let the mistakes get to me. I know it sounds simple and it will take work, but when you make a mistake, learn from it and move on.

Why do I hate myself? - There could be any number of reasons. The reasons I listed above are ones I have personally dealt with in the past. There were times I hated who I was and wanted to change myself so I could be like everyone else.

Then one day I realized that I am not like everyone else. I am me, so I set out to be me and I soon found that I no longer hated myself. I did not take the things that happened to me so personally anymore. I do not know if it will work for you, but isn't it worth a shot?

How to Love?

People often marry for love. They are in love with their mate and from deep within themselves, they feel a desire to be with this person forever. They can see their flaws and tolerate them. They can see a pleasant future. Nothing else seems to matter. But you cannot truly love another person until you love yourself. That might sound like psycho babble, but common sense tells us it has merit. If you don’t love yourself, you’ll never feel like the type of person who is worthy of love. And you’ll never be able to completely love anyone else. Here’s what you can do to love and care for yourself.

Say, “I love you” to yourself.

You may feel ridiculous saying self-affirming phrases such as, “I love myself,” or “I’m the best me I can be.” But we all need encouragement from time to time, and we should not rely on someone else or wait for our spouse to give it to us. Reminding yourself of your good qualities helps you build self-esteem, which will give you confidence in your relationships and career.

Why has my friend changed?

Friendship is a great thing to have. Some friendships are not the easiest to have because you may feel you have to sacrifice yourself for the friendship. How to not sacrifice yourself for friendship will entail you to be strong and know your own worth as a person. Many friends will take advantage of your friendship causing you to sacrifice yourself.

To not sacrifice yourself for a friendship doesn't mean you need to not be a good friend. A good friend will actually make a friendship be a give and take relationship. There is no need for one friend to sacrifice themselves and the other friend to do all the taking.

Helping out a friend once in awhile is how to be a good friend. But if you are doing more for one friend that any other and yourself included, then you need to change things so you are not sacrificing your self for the friendship.

One way to let a friend know that you cannot do everything for them and always put them ahead of you and your family, if you have a family, is to talk to your friend. Some friends don't realize that they are asking you to help so much. These friends are most understanding and will change the demands they put on you. Your friendship can stay as wonderful as it has been and you do not have to sacrifice yourself.

If when you talk to your friends, they are put out and seem to give you a guilt trip, try to be understanding, but keep your stand strong. You need to know that you have worth as a person and you do not need to sacrifice yourself for your friendship. There are some people that will use you no matter who you are. Try to explain that you want to help them out when they really need you, but you do not need to pick up their dry cleaning or whatever.

You want to know how to not sacrifice yourself for friendship and keep the friendship happy and harmonious. One thing that you can do is to offer to do what you know you can do for your friend before your friend asks you. This way you get to help a friend in a way they need the help and you get to not sacrifice yourself for friendship.

The key here is to offer to help out before your friend asks you. Then when you are asked to help but have other pressing engagements, you can say no and not feel like you never give your friend the time your friendship needs. Your friend, if he or she is a true friend, will understand that you can't always be at their beck and call.

Also remember that if you feel that you are sacrificing yourself for your friendship, maybe you could ask your friend to help you out once in a while. If you are doing all the helping, yes you would feel like you sacrifice yourself for your friendship. Have your friend help you out with the things you may need help with.

Friendships are great and very rewarding. Friendships can even be more rewarding if you know how to not sacrifice yourself for the friendship. Begin by knowing your worth in the friendship, talk to your friend, learn to say no and ask your friend for some help once in a while.

           Honestly, being gay is nothing to be ashamed of. At the depth of it all God loves everyone no matter how evil you are. If you are a good person at heart, it doesn't matter if you're gay, straight or bisexual. That has nothing to do with who you are as a person. You aren't more likely to commit violence because you're straight or gay. It's not like being straight causes people to do drugs and I know for a fact being gay doesn't make people abuse animals. Sure you may be critiscized for making one choice or the other and no it shouldn't be that way. It's your moral fortitude and how you choose to handle the challenges you face that dictates who you are. Just do your best to live a good life, be a good person at heart. We aren't perfect, we are all different and most of all we all want to be loved.

My dog got hit by a car and i was sad what do you do if u cry about it even more?

I tell ya what fucking school bus is a fucking driver. My mother called me this morning and was cry. That is so painful for me to hear that. While she was cook foods for a cat and 2 dogs she let a dog play alone in front of our home then she finish cook and come to feed them. She saw her Puddle dog die on the road in front of our home. I know how do my mother feel and can’t imagine it.
I know what car who hit my dog that is school bus come to pick some kids up every morning,  Neighbour told my mother they saw my dog play with some kids in that time.

I dont know why that driver hit my dog and runaways. I think i might wait till he comes again for next time I be there and fucking put a knife to his nuts he might fucking apologize to my mother!

My Guardian Angel!

A man overtime falls in love with the woman he is attracted to, and a woman overtime becomes
more attracted to the man she loves.

I ever met a guy who seemed to be "Mr. Right", but after getting to know him better. I could tell that I just didn't feel that same level of "connection" I felt.

I were attracted to him, but he just wasn't into me the same way I were into him.

 In my mind, I could sense what a great guy he was, and that, somewhere deep inside, we both shared this strong "chemistry" that made I feel close and comfortable. But for some reason he didn't want to truly connect with me!

I ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen i got that sinking feeling in my stomach. I knew it was a mistake, but I did it anyway. And then the thing i knew would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from my life.

    Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that i knew I shouldn't have done it in the first place... but i did it anyway.

I ever dated a great guy for a long time and it was getting to the point where i needed to have "the talk" with him. But when i tried to bring up the topic of having a relationship and making a bigger commitment, his eyes just glazed over... and then he became distant from me... and the relationship ended soon after!

When I love someone when I want them to be
happy even if their happiness means that I am not part of it.

Yet, there is a story of a girl. 
Who always needed a warm hug 
from her daddy. 
But she was too shy to ask for. 
Until the day.. 
he can never hug her any more. 

I'm sorry for the troubles And the worries I brought you.I'm sorry for my mistakes, I didn't mean to make you blue.When I was young and growing up, Living in your home for so long,I made many people sad, I did many things wrong.So I thought that I could show you now, By moving away and being on my own, That I was finally straightened out, I wanted to prove to you I am finally maturely grown.But I havn't done to well at that, I guess it goes to show, You never really solved it all, You never really know.I'd like to show you now, I need to take the time to say,Thanks for accepting both the good and bad.

I think it’s pretty much agreed that it goes: Open mind: good.  Judgmental: bad.

 But are we being too quick to judge judgment?

Perhaps judgment is not so much a snap decision…as an early warning and detection device.

If it is instantly clear that a person, a place, or even a profession is not for you…is it better to ignore your better judgment and a read between the lines… or should you judge a book by its cover?

When you’re young, you whole life is about the pursuit of fun.

Then you grow up and learn to be cautious.

You could break a bone or a heart.

You look before you leap, and sometimes you don’t leap at all…because there’s not always someone there to catch you.

And in life there’s no safety net.

When did it stop being fun and start being scary?

I decided it was time to leave fear behind and have some fun.

When things come to easy, we’re suspect.

Do they have to get complicated before we believe they’re for real?

We’re raised to believe that true never runs smoothly.

There always have to be obstacles in Act Two before you can live happily ever after in Act Three.

But what happens when the obstacles aren’t there?

Does something missing?

A short while later, I had a thought.

Maybe the past is like an anchor holding us back.

Maybe you have to let go of who you were…to become who you will be.

Think how much easier it would all be if there was some swift surgical procedure to whisk away all the ugly memories and mistakes and leave only the fun trips and special holidays. But until that day arrives, what to do?

Rely on the same old needlepoint philosophy of “forgive and forget”?

And even if a couple can manage the forgiveness has any ever really conquered the forgetness?

Can you ever really forgive,if you can't forget?

 If I forgive the person who hurt me, they'll think what they did was okay. They don't deserve it. Why should I forgive?

When you live in the city that never sleeps… 

it come as a bit of a shock when somehow you manage to over sleep.

   Pattaya is a place you can get anything anytime.

 Mc donald at 24 hours

Deef fried bugs  everywhere. 

But somehow i can’t take fill gas at night time. 

Meanwhile, I was doing everything plus in my room. I couldn’t get out of room. My room was my restaurant, my entertainment, my little  paradise.

I had confronted my ghost.

I had accepted and released him…but now I was more haunted then ever.

Because what I felt out there was no ghost…it was real. 

Reached my limit.

Les blessures d'amour ne peuvent guérir que
par celui qui les a faites. 

In love relationships, there is a fine line between pleasure and pain.

In fact, it’s common belief that a relationship without pain…….is a relationship not worth having.

To same, pain implies growth.

But how do we know when the growing pains stop…and the “pain-pains” take over?

Are we masochists or optimists, if we continue to walk that fine line?

When it comes to relationships…how do you know when enough is enough?

My Persian cat then at about 4 years old, started exhibiting fear at an extent that made me have his evaluated by a vet. Nothing was found wrong with him once again health wise. The fear was manifested through hissing, growling and attempts to scratch and bite. The first time this happened I really thought he was having an aggressive fit against me. Then later, through some research on the Internet I figured out he had developed what was called "redirected aggression". In other words, he saw something out the window that over charged his with fear and then he would see me and attack me instead. This went on and off for several years. I had to close all window views by pulling the blinds down or tying the curtains. When he acted out this way I had to put him in a dark room until he calmed down. Finally, I gave him up concerned about him wellbeing and passed him to my parents. Since then he has had very rare episodes and has improved dramatically.

Perhaps this as well is not really a behavior problem but it can be considered something that needs attention. My Persian cat has grown up to be a lazy pillow warmer, allergic to movement and work outs. I have try really hard to engage him in some active play. Concerned for his health, I have bought a bunch of expensive toys only to find out later that he really enjoyed playing with cheap stuff I had at home. One of his favorites is my necklace. He could hear the noise of my necklace from a room in the opposite side of my home and will run to me eager to play. I also had bought him a remote controlled mouse, he ignored the mouse but weirdly really enjoyed playing with the antenna. I still have to work hard in stimulating him to get his daily exercise, but the vet gave him a clean bill of health, so I tend t onot worry much about it anymore.

If you would ask my Persian cat what he thinks are the most improtant things in the world he would say: "Food and my home.". I had many times when I had to leave him with pet's hotel while I was away a month to work in Singapore and he got pretty homesick. He refused to eat and pretty much spent all day under the bed. He did eventually come out and eat a few bites on the days that followed, but he really must have had a hard time adjusting to being in a different place. While this is pretty common in most cats, I must admit his case was a little harder to deal with when compared to how my other non-Persian cats had reacted in the past.

While the above behavior problems may seem excessive to some, they do not necessarily occur in most Persians. Personally, I must admit that I will never want to trade him for another cat. When the re-directed aggression issue appeared I knew that a lot of people would have considered giving him up or euthanizing heim. To me instead, this option never crossed my mind. Rather I tried to pass him to my parents that lived in a quieter neighborhood and this worked out well. I still get to see him as much as I want and I still consider him "my cat".

I love my Persian cat and must admit that he also has a lot of qualities. He is very quiet, placid and sweet. He loves to be pet and nothing feels better than petting a soft purring Persian. He gives me lots of nose kisses and in my belief, I think he loves me too. Persians may have a few behavior issues but if you live in a small apartment and yet want a feline companion, a Persian may easily adjust and warm up your pillows and very easily warm up your heart!

I was first introduced to these fish cakes, "tod mun plaa" in Thai. The deep fried cakes looked interesting but I was a bit nervous of the "green" bits in them. It looked like they were green chilies. However, later, after I had started to pay an interest in how the street food was made, I soon realized that it wasn't chili but in fact green beans!

This is quite an easy dish to cook. The ingredients include: minced spinach mackerel, red curry paste, egg, finely sliced long bean, finely shredded kaffir leaves and seasoned with salt and sugar. After being mixed in a bowl, you use your hands to make small patties about two inches in diameter. These are then deep-friend until golden brown. Very delicious.

Spring rolls

  INGREDIENTS :
Spring roll wrappers 12 oz.
Ground pork 1 cup
Egg 1 whole
Mung bean noodle
(or beanthread) 2 oz.
Green cabbage, sliced thin 1 cup
Bean sprouts 1 cup
Garlic, chopped 1 tbsp.
Flour and water paste 1/2 cup
Ground pepper 1 - 2 tsp.
Soy Sauce 2 tbsp.
Frying oil 4 cups.
(4 servings)

Directions :
1. Soak the beanthread in water until soft, drain and cut into short lengths.
2. Mix together ground pork, egg, cabbage, bean sprouts, ground pepper, soy sauce and beanthread and put aside.
3. In a pan heat up a little oil and fry the chopped garlic until aromatic, then add the mixture and fry until cooked and well seasoned. Take this mixture off heat and allow to cool.
4. Once cooled, stuff this filling into the spring roll wrappers and seal with flour paste.
5. Fry spring rolls in hot oil until golden brown and drain. Served hot with plum sauce.

Tips.-
This dish originates in Vietnam and the dipping sauces vary from region to region. Most likely the sauce that you would easily find in your country is plum sauce which comes bottled and ready made. Should the plum sauce be too sweet and not spicy enough simply warm it up and add a little vinegar with chopped hot chili peppers.

Chicken Coconut Soup ( TOM KHA KAI)

INGREDIENTS :
Chicken stock 2 cups
Coconut milk 3/4 cup
Fish sauce 2 - 3 tbsp.
Fresh chicken thigh, cubed 6 oz.
Kaffir lime leaves, torn 3 leaves
Bird's eye chili peppers 2 tsp.
Coriander roots from one plant
Young galangal root, sliced 2 tbsp.
Lemon grass, sliced 1 tbsp.

Stuffed Nutria’s Omelets

What is needed?

1/4 cup vegetable oil
3 tablespoons diced tomatoes
3 tablespoons green peas
3 table spoons finely diced carrots
2 tablespoons finely diced onions
1/2 tablespoon sugar
1/4 teaspoon white pepper
1/4 teaspoon soy sauce
3 eggs, beaten
1 tablespoon fish sauce (you will get in supermarkets)

Garnish with:
Chopped cilantro leaves
Sliced red chilies

How to?

Heat half the oil in a wok. Add all ingredients except eggs, garnishes& remaining oil, and stir-fry 2 minutes more.

Heat an omelet pan and add a drop of the remaining oil.

Pour in enough egg to thinly cover the bottom of the pan.

Brown the omelet lightly on both sides, flipping over halfway through cooking.

Repeat until all the egg is used.

Place a tablespoon full of the vegetable mixture in the center of each omelet.

Fold two opposite sides toward the center& then fold in the remaining sides so that it resembles a square.

Place the omelet on serving plate. Repeat until all omelets and vegetable mixture are used.

Garnish with cilantro leaves and sliced red chilies on top or around the plate.

Hardest moment is not that when i lose something
and tears come out of my eyes.
But it is the one when i lose something
and still i manage to smile...This is Hardest....

 

 

Many times when someone is sad, people resort to giving advice, changing the subject or trying to make her happy when usually all she needs to know is that she's not alone in the process and that she's being heard. Letting go of your expectations for how it should take your friends to resolve their sadness is the most important part of comforting someone.

I felt like I was just shot with a.38

"Someday my life is nothing  but misery...I get so mad sometimes that I get thoughts about serial killing and everything...but I would never do anything like that. I have no friends, Nothing but enemies...And whenever I feel like talking to someone about my feelings...I can't find anyone to listen to me, but when I don't want to talk about it...Everyone around me wants to know what's wrong. I sometimes pray and BEG God to take my life….to just kill me and get it over with....but as it seems...that will not ever happen.

I love my family but sometimes...I feel as if they hate me. Everytime I get mad I go around punching on everything I see...Walls, Houses, Cars, People, and even myself. I don't know where to go to take anger management classes but I really need them."